Sunday, June 29, 2014

#26 - friendship

When I look back at the last 10 years of my life.  One through line that has remained constant without the slightest of waverings is friendship.  We've all heard the, "your friends are a reflection of you and are mirroring back what already exists in you."  Which is a concept that makes my heart sing.  But I also think friendship is a complete and utter gift and the people that show up in our lives do, so that we may venture together to tackle the most heroic, epic and blissful moments of our existence.  Our friends are there to recall for us just how far we've come when we've forgotten, they see us in our greatness no matter the circumstance, they won't let us ever have less than we deserve and they forever hold memories of hilarity and crazy experiences that we shall never forget because they keep them alive for us.

When I think of all of the friends I know and have known in this lifetime, each one of them has left an imprint. A deep mark that has altered the way I see the world.  I am forever changed by the people who have shared moments with me and stayed with me to say "its ok, you'll get through it, tomorrow is a new day."

You never know what you are going to get from a friend, what gift, realization or insight they are going to offer that will open up a new world of opportunity inside of you.  But what you can bet on is that they will always be there, regardless if its too late too early, too cold or to wet.  Friends never need a reason to be because they just are, forever and always.

Thank you to:

Lesley, who has opened up a world of feminine honouring and power I am forever grateful for.

Grace, who is the epitome of a friend who can just be with you no matter what you are going through.

Andrew, who reminds me of my greatness every single time I talk to him.

Daniela, who I have shared some of the most hilarious and rawly painful moments of my life with and who still loves me no matter what.  Thank you for Lisa Loeb and Goo Goo Dolls on repeat.

Yuen, who is the greatest and most consistent friend and best movie date ever!  I will never forget sneaking into a second movie with you in highschool late night after hours.

Marianne, who loves me to pieces no matter what and supports everyone in her life to fulfill on their dreams and on top of that has the most beautiful family ever.

Shirin, who I can forever count on to tell me how it is without fail and who will never let me have less than I deserve.

Payam, for being the coolest man my best friend could have ever married.

Ryan, who lights up the room and is the best and most competitive board game, bocce and beer pong player I have ever met.

Jen S. for embarking on the journey of a lifetime with me in this last year and who constantly reminds me just how magnificent each day and moment on earth is.

Susie who is the best listener and happiest person I have ever met and have the pleasure of getting to see every day!

Melody who is always game for an adventure and is one of the raddest people I know who can and will do anything and everything and inspired me to do the same.

Rohan who I feel like I've been through a lifetime of great things with already and its only been 2 years of knowing you. Can't wait for whats next.

David for being the kindest and most powerful example of love and what it means to be love in this world.

Jen A. for creating some of the best travel memories ever in europe and for being one of the most positive and supportive people I have ever known.

Ainslie for your grace and openness to share your knowledge wisdom and love for the world with me.

Steve L for being the fiercest man who does absolutely anything he puts his mind to and inspired me daily to do the same!

Jordan for not letting me get away with my BS ever and for having some of the best phone chats ever together.

Terri for being the most energetic and inspiring bold woman I am forever proud to know.

Arash for your openness and willingness to embark on a giraffe adventure with me and for laughing and reminding me to be light with myself all of the time!

Amber for being a constant graceful reminder of love, support and full expression in the world.

Odette for allowing me the space to be me no matter what the circumstance and for being the most exquisite example of connection and aliveness in the world and in family.

Wendy for being my soul sister, tea drinker, late night talker and heart and soul. I love you to the ends of the earth.

Kristina for the best solstice parties in the world and for wanting the world to be a better place and being an example that it can and will be, no matter what.

Brit for being the most hilarious, loving, kind, thoughtful and fiercest male diva in the world. You make each day better for everyone.

Sophie for being a constant reminder of the beauty that exists in each moment we experience.

Mark D for opening up a world in me that I am eternally grateful for and for sharing some of the most exquisite moments with me in just one week.

Tony for being the best big brother I could have ever asked for.

Kelsey for being my concert buddy and someone who truly loves all of the people closest to her with her entire heart.

Tay for being my birthday twin and one of the coolest cats I know.

Jessica for exuding such love and light in the world such that every person who comes in contact with you is that much better for having met you.

Stefan for sharing your talents with me and the world with such openness.

Michael K the other MK whose beauty and light touches an entire room of people and who I adore going to dance class with because he reminds me daily that its all for the fun of it!

Hugo for being my ballet watching partner in crime and for some of my most memorable convos to date.

Melissa for making every single situation more fun than I could ever imagine!

Candace for the honour and pleasure of being a part of your life for the last 10 years!

Julie L for showering me with love and for sharing your art with me so gracefully.

Camille for you beauty, grace and friendship.

Lori for being the most eloquent and articulate big sister ever.

Noam for seeing the world for all its beauty and your ability to make every person on this earth be so fully heard and seen.

Mika for being the best little sister and roommate in Mexico. I shall never forget the wild adventures we find ourselves on!

Cathy for some of the most fascinating and life changing conversations I am forever grateful for.

Kate for our lives crossing at some of the most unique and fabulous moments ever, and for the laughter that constantly erupts whenever I see you!

Day for being a powerhouse and unending support for your friends, you are one of a kind.

Court for exuding beauty and light in every moment no matter the circumstance.

Pfer for being the best papa bear in the world.

Elizabeth for creating opportunities for me and for the world to feel their best each day on earth.

Mark H. for believing in me and for your generosity and kindness.

Wil for being an example of someone who says and does it all no matter what.

Parjad for your friendship, great conversations and wanting art to be shared with everyone.

Yvonne for capturing the most exquisite moments of life ever and for sharing your talents so openly with the world.  You are so appreciated for who you are.

Elena for being a constant friend and for being able to pick up exactly where we left off 15 years later.

Donna for being the most generous and thoughtful woman I know.

Megan for being the best friend I could have ever asked for in this lifetime, having you as my sister is the icing on the cake!

I have missed many, so this list is just a start.  Thank you to everyone who has shared themselves with me over drinks, tears, laugher, fears and anything else that life throws out there to remind us just how lucky we are to have friends.







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